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Does your teen know
she's being monitored?
Honesty about monitoring is a real parenting choice. There's no wrong answer.
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We've talked about it
She knows monitoring exists and we agreed on it together. Transparent.
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She knows I might check
She knows I look sometimes, but doesn't see the details.
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She doesn't know
This is private — between me and the system. I'll decide when and whether to tell her.
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When something looks off —
how much do you want to know?
This controls how often we interrupt you. You can change it any time.
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Serious risks only
Only interrupt me when it's clearly a problem. I trust my kid.
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Keep me informed
Flag uncertain situations too. I'd rather check and be wrong.
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Full picture
Everything — contacts, patterns, activity. I'll decide what matters.
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A new name shows up
she's never mentioned.
What should we do when we see a contact we have no history on?
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Ask me softly
"Who is this?" — a gentle check-in, not an alarm. Your reply becomes a memory.
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Always alert me
Any new contact gets treated as something I should know about right away.
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Only if there's risk
Ignore new contacts unless something in the conversation looks concerning.
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Venting, crushes, friend drama.
Where's your line?
Normal teen life — where do you want visibility, and where's her private space?
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Her private space
That's hers. Only flag if it crosses into real risk.
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Light awareness
Keep me loosely in the picture — no need for every detail.
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Full picture
I want to know how she's really doing — emotionally, socially.
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Always alert me for these —
no exceptions.
These fire regardless of sensitivity settings. Deselect any you don't want.
Done ✓
Here's how we'll
work together.
You can change any of this from Settings at any time.